My wife and I were referred to David Sutton by our counselor. The counselor has sent dozens of couples to David and all of them had success in resolving their divorces . Our counselor was aware of the fact that our attorneys were fighting so much. David was a good listener and heard each of our points of view and our concerns. We were impressed with how much David shifted our communication to a more positive place. What had been a huge conflict for my wife and I, and one that the attorneys had made worse, David made disappear into thin air simply by helping us analyze the challenge from a different perspective. David seemed to have a vision, and see things, that we did not see and by sharing his thoughts, and encouraging us to think differently about the issues and consider what was really at stake for our family, he helped my wife and I reach a global settlement and regain the trust and respect that we had for each other before we starting the legal divorce process.

We were recommended to David Sutton by our couples counselor, with whom we had worked for several years, as well as our attorneys, and even a couple of friends. It seems like David has mediated the divorce for a bunch of people in Marin and SF as I frequently hear his name from people when I ask them about their divorce. Everyone I have talked to seems to say, more or less, similar things, and those things reflect our experience with David. David is kind but firm, and although he will give you the opportunity to express your feelings and get your emotional thoughts out on the table, he makes it clear that he is not doing couples counseling but that he wants to make sure everyone feels heard and that any destructive, but un-discussed, conflicts are addressed so that, when he is finished working with you, you are more likely to get along as co-parents. It only took us three sessions to negotiate all of the issues in our divorce and, although it was not fun, David kept us focused on the task, did not waste our time and money, and even made us laugh a bit. I have to say, after what my ex-wife and I had been through before we met David, it was actually pretty nice to laugh with her again and remember that we have a lot in common and that we don't have to be hostile toward one another. David was very skilled in explaining the law to us and in negotiating a comprehensive settlement and, I have to say, I don't know where we would have been without his thoughtful advice.